The Mess You Leave Behind: Things to Handle Before You Pass Away by Tammecia Smith
Tammecia Smith is a monument dealer with over 17 years in the death care industry. She is the owner of Melanated Memorials, a diverse line of headstones and monuments featuring African American angels. She’s dedicated to transforming the memorial industry by offering high-quality memorials that honor memories while celebrating diversity. I get it — life is hard, and death feels scary. Some people believe that discussing their demise is somehow summoning it. From years of experience in the death care industry, here’s the honest truth: Death isn’t the enemy. Avoidance is. Avoidance protects no one — it leaves families overwhelmed and unprepared while grieving. In this line of work, we talk about death like it’s a regular Tuesday. Not because we lack compassion, but because compassion is the job. We see the aftermath — the arguments, confusion, and frustration that could have been avoided with a plan in place. What you do (or don’t do) today will continue to impact the...