The BOSS Network Blog

Have you ever been on the expressway stuck in a long, agonizing line of traffic and you finally start moving and see no signs of an accident? Many times I’ve found myself even more frustrated that we slowed down for nothing. Most of the time, we find ourselves in a slow-moving line of onlookers. An accident, a traffic stop or some other distraction catches our attention and causes us to slow down, take our eyes off what’s in front of us and focus all attention and energy on people heading in a totally opposite direction. I’m not saying we shouldn’t be concerned with the misfortunes of others. I’m one of those people who pray for people involved in accidents as I pass by. It’s a good thing to be aware of what’s happening with others. I’ve learned, however, that even though we are concerned about what’s happening around us, anything that causes us to take our eyes off what’s in front of us can cause detrimental consequences: front end and rear-end accidents, missed exits and tard...

Establish your motives. In reinventing yourself, the goal is to change so much so that you appear to become completely different. That’s a huge commitment to make and it will require a solid motive. Choose something that will be able to withstand your daily mood-swings and excuses, the opinions of others, and all circumstantial hurdles. Powerful motives improve your health, make you better and not bitter, and put you in a position to be a blessing to others.  Write the vision. Studies show that we are 42% more likely to achieve our goals by writing them down. It’s not enough to just think about it and imagine it. Skyscrapers don’t get built from pictures; blueprints have to be drawn up with exact measurements. Take the time to write down in detail who you want to be and what it takes to become that person. Do your research. Be adventurous but also realistic. Develop a budget and a schedule. Keep this written vision near you at all times and revisit it daily. Writing ...