Boss Moms, Find the time you thought you lost! By Shana Naylor
Did you know there was 86,400 seconds in a day? Sounds
like a lot right? We all get the same amount of time, the difference is just
how we choose to spend it. Yes I understand we all have our own set of responsibilities
and some of us take this journey solo but keep reading and I guarantee you’ll
find an additional 30 minutes in your day to work on your Dream. Often when I ask moms, “What keeps you from
living out your passion? The response is, I don’t have enough time.
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Well let me challenge you to Take Control of Your Time. Being
a Bossmom is like having 2 fulltime jobs and that depends on how many brands
you’re working on at once. So it’s important to manage every second of your day. You have to manage What you’re spending
your time on and who you’re spending your time with. Stephen Covey says Habit #3 of a highly
effective person is: To put First Things First = Prioritize.
Begin to take inventory of what you’re spending
your time on. Just like they tell people
that are on the weight loss journey to document everything they’re eating. I challenge you to document everything you’re
spending your time on. How much TV do
you watch? How much time do you spend on
the phone? How do you spend your time in the car? Could you get up 30 minutes
earlier?
One of the most significant things you can control is who
you are associating with—your choices of who you permit into your world, who
you give time to or invest time with, and who you look to for ideas, information
and education. In order to be successful
you must spend time with people that are going to tell you How to make it
Possible vs How Impossible it is. People
are around you either to support your accomplishments, make them more
challenging, or they sabotage it outright.
So you have to first eliminate toxic people from your life. Your schedule is already full, you don’t
have time for people that devalue your time.
As a Bossmom, you are
more susceptible to contamination, all your responsibilities and time
limitations causes you to fall weak to distractions. There’s
always 100 other things that you can do with your time, then we convince
ourselves to just enjoy the time we have with the kids. So we put our dreams on
hold until the kids get older. No ma’am! Kids adopt attitudes and habits of their moms.
We tell them all the time they can be whatever they want to be when they grow
up. So show them what that looks like. There have been studies that show working
women have higher self-esteem, are stronger emotionally and financially; kids
will benefit from having a mother that is more confident, resourceful and
appreciates life, all traits that kids will learn to appreciate later in life.
So when you get the thought that you don’t have enough
time, I challenge you to re-evaluate how and with who you are spending your
time and how it really is a benefit to your kids. This isn’t an easy task to
master but practice makes perfect and you’ll soon find the time you thought you
lost when you became a mom.
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