Kind, Not a Doormat: Why Black Women in Business Must Be Kind and Firm by Niehla O.
Niehla O. spent over 20 years in the fashion and beauty industry but decided to pivot into an industry that helps people look good on the inside. After a chance encounter with a tasty green hummus blend, a late-night craving led her to begin mixing unique hummus flavors of her own. Her goal is to continue to spread love and hummus throughout our community. As Black women in business, many of us were raised to be nice. We were taught to be respectful, helpful, and accommodating. Those qualities have served us well in many ways. They help us build relationships, create community, and provide exceptional customer service. But somewhere along the way, many of us learned a dangerous lesson: that being nice means saying yes to everything. It doesn’t. There is a difference between being kind and being a pushover. Kindness is treating people with dignity and respect. Firmness is honoring your own dignity and respecting your boundaries. The two can—and should—coexist. How does this relate to y...