Happy Mother(ship) Day! By Aria Craig
Leadership is something that was cultivated from my past experiences
that shaped the woman and mother that I am today…and will be in the future. About
eight years ago, I landed a great opportunity for a large insurance company. Because
I was extremely ambitious (and still am), I transformed into a sponge to learn
everything I needed to know in order to excel. And that, I did! Within five
months, I was considered for a promotion to a leadership opportunity and less
than a year later I was double promoted. Not bad for someone who walked through the glass
door with more than fifteen years of experience in a completely non-related
industry (legal). Also, not bad for a single mother!
While elevating my game for my next career move, my son was
being influenced. He noticed me working diligently to achieve my Bachelor
Degree, subsequently completing my M.B.A. He became so driven that he was
compelled to run for 5th grade class president after only attending
the school for a year-and-a-half. I listened to his speech (that he drafted all
by himself) and worked with him on his stage presence. On the day all the
candidates had to speak in front of the student body I was an incredibly proud
mom. The principal asked which candidate wanted to give their speech first.
While the other students looked at each other with apprehension, my son – with his
suit, tie and glasses – boldly and confidently proceeded to the microphone. And
momma noticed! He spoke at the right pitch, gave hand gestures, paused at the
right moments and gave direct eye contact. My eyes swelled up with tears and I
jumped out of my seat, clapping so hard my hands turned beet red! By the end of
the week, the decision was made. He called me from the principal’s office to
inform me that he had won by a landslide!! Now, that deserved a trip for the
biggest ice cream sundae and a handful of “Congratulations!” balloons. The best
part about the experience is that I believed that He believed that he was
equipped to win.
Society places so much shame on single and divorced mothers
that the need for them to influence their children and others through their
leadership characteristics is incredibly crucial. I have been blessed to cross
the paths of so many fabulous and talented moms that are working on their crafts
(or still contemplating) with a focus of service. Motherships (Mothers in
Leadership) understand this calling. They are driven and want to elevate so
intensely that the energy not only stirs their souls but the marrow in their
bones. They have aspirations to create a legacy for their children and leave an
inspiring imprint for future generations. And their children are observing
this!
So on May 8th pat yourself on the back, brush
your shoulders off and have a Fabulous Mother(ship) Day!!
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